Hi...(this isnt PP related..but..)
1.Just picked up my car - has been at the mechanics for nearly 2 weeks...god no car for 2 weeks.....very, very stress ful..relying in friends...but we got through it.............
2. Just getting through the day ....i have decided to "blow my own horn"..cause at present my days all seem very difficult...2 close friends are very ill with cancer and one with ? MS....
-about to move house again..thanks too my elderly (adopted) mother mucking us around...long story...i took her in to look after her...we needed to move to accommodate her..then she decided to go to a nursing home...(basically disowned her grand daughter and me..after everything we did for her...) we had to rent..as tenants were in my house...now financially drained..being a single mum..(no dad around at all...) and with no family...Mollie and l are finally moving back to our own house...........
3. Work is a pain in the butt..or at least the people around me............
4. I have fallen into a heap but some how l always find the strength to soldiers on..............
I am sorry about my huge whinge...and l would only pour my heart out on this site.....thanks for allowing me to do it.............

Hi Kathy,
First of all I am glad you feel you can freely express yourself on here. You are welcomed to do so and so are others. We all need to vent at times and somehow i feel it helps to know you are not alone and others do care about you.

I am so sorry to hear of the hard times you have been having. I truly hope things quickly swing around for you and it will be wonderful to be back in your own home.

They say things happen for a reason and at times it is very hard to see why they do. Perhaps its to make us stronger or wiser who knows. But i truly find you inspiring and you are such a terrific mum to mollie. You at least have each other and I hope the days ahead are much brighter for you both.

Take Care

Snazza

In fact i think i may create another forum entitled Heart to Heart as I often have thought it would help to share thoughts on here and as I said i feel speaking outwardly to others often helps.

IN THE PAST!

Unfortunately, a lot happens in one's life. I was a single mum before, 1 beautiful little girl to look after. We struggled and struggled, I couldn't even get credit to buy a washing machine, let alone a dining table. At times, back then, I used to cry and wondered why this is happening to me, I wasn't bought into this world to live a life like this, I don't deserve it. I was losing friends and family members like there was no tomorrow. To a lot of people, I was just a NOTHING!

BUT NOW!

Now, my 1 yr old is now 17, successfully completed a Cert 111 Hospitality & Tourism, travelled to Japan last year, graduated from high school, selected to complete a Hospitality training session - which is about to commence and is hoping to secure a position to fullfill a career in International Business Management, which she will leave the country for about 18 months.

I also have two other girls, 4 & 6, and a wonderful, warm, caring and supporting partner and a fantastic dad, to his three girls. Plus we have our very own home.

We have hit a pitfall, we have had to list the house for sale, but I have a feeling that things will only get better for us, keeping our fingers crossed, then we won't have to sell.

I agree, things happen for a reason, and whatever has happened in our lives, no matter what, it will only get better, soldier on and move forward, you only have to prove to yourself that you can do it, for you and your precious daughter.

STAY HAPPY!
&
KEEP SMILING!

KAZZA

Thanks so much girls...your words of kindness mean a lot...
l know l am not alone in my struggles...but too know others have them still doesnt help your plight at the time...
l wish life could be easy for all of us....God knows we deserve some happiness and life needs to get better....
Thank you Snazza for your kind words...l think a "{heart to heart" section ) would be great.......
Kazza- l sincerely hope that your finances improve and that you don't need to sell your house....renting is such a pain also and financially draining..your family sounds lovely and you have been lucky to be blessed with 3 beautiful girls...

I have my gorgeous Mollie Rose- she is the light in my life...l don't know where l would be without her....
I wish you both every happiness and luck and love....

Kindest regards...Kathy